Since we last checked in with True Mom Confessions, almost a dozen more women have agreed that they often find other peoples' kids ugly. Nearly 50 have said "me too" to preferring sleep to sex now that they're mommies. In the small amount of time that the site has existed in the world (it launched earlier this year), this anonymous forum has opened a peep hole into the candid, wondrous, startling inner world of motherhood. When we asked, co-creator Romi Lassally shared the story of how her secret-hoarding site came to be...
Romi, with the recent launch of confession sites for office workers, dads, and brides, you are at the center of a burgeoning empire of secrets! How did you get started?
I actually had the idea for the site following a weekend during which I committed many, many parental misdemeanors. I'd followed conflicting parenting book advice about dealing with sibling conflict (one book had me leaving my kids to duke it out in the back seat of the car while I got out and sat on the hood—a disaster; the other had me using a calm voice and trying to reason with them—also a disaster.)
There were many parenting "don'ts" throughout the weekend but the topper was when my son woke up in the middle of the night and threw up all over my sea grass carpeting and being so exhausted (and having to put us both in the shower and bedding in the wash), I left the vomit on the floor hoping the dog would eat it. I was wracked with my standard mommy guilt on Monday but found that after confessing all my sins to a friend, I actually felt better... and so True Mom Confessions was born! Read the full profile...
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Whether feeling exhausted or exhilarated, turned on or totally tuned out, moms come in all emotional states and sizes. This online confessional, reportedly the first of its kind, opens a window on the secret sentiments mothers harbor. There's no guarantee that the comments here truly come from women with children, but most of them ring achingly true. The candid disclosures take on husbands, singlehood, and pacifiers. Some beam with gratitude and the joy of mommyness; others starkly admit to being lost and favoring one child over the other. While the posts are absorbing, it's the "me too" function that frequently gives the comments their extra zing:
"Sometimes I think other peoples' kids are ugly and I wonder how they can't see it." Me too: 53
"When I look at pictures of myself as a teenager, I kick myself for thinking I was "fat."" Me too: 143
"I have no desire for sex anymore. I would rather sleep." Me too: 126
Update: On June 29, Yahoo! Picks talked to Romi Lassally, the co-creator of True Mom Confessions. Check out our brief discussion on Y! Picks Profiles.
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